Relationship coaching for couples who wish to keep the relationship healthy and passionate
Drifting apart? — It does not have to be the end!
You are in a long term relationship and the excitement of discovering one another is slowly fading away. Do you feel like you can anticipate each others moves, that there are no more surprises? Has your long term relationship
gone comfortable and lazy? The passion in your relationship is gone. The effort of impressing or proving to one another that you are right for them is no longer needed. The pursue is over. You compliment each other less, the new and exciting excursions you used to have every weekend changed to trips to the supermarket and family gatherings.
And to top it all, routine is in full gear. When you do have time to sit and talk, the discussions are about the kids, what needs to be done around the house, finances etc.
What happened to all the fun talks you used to have?
The crazy sex?
The quality time you spent together just the two of you?
You miss it so much!
It feels like a lifetime ago and you ask yourself if you can ever bring it back.
You can! It is a matter of re-integrating those fun and important parts you miss easily and gradually. After a short period of time the changes you have made will feel as part of your life as though they have never left.
You can still excite each other, you can still explore one another and find ways to surprise your partner. You can bring back the passion into your life.
What to Expect
In a long term relationship, open and clear communication is key to get closer. My clients often tell me: My partner and I speak all the time – we communicate well
But when was the last time you told her how beautiful she is, or you told him how much you miss the small trips you use to take every weekend.
With time, the communication turns into what we is expected, what needs to be done and not what we really want, feel, miss, wish for.
Sometimes, couples drift apart due to a traumatic experience, lack of mutual interests, quality time together. Your lifestyle has changed. There are parts which feel safe, good and comfortable, and others that are plain boring and passionless.
Routine, the lack of shown appreciation from your partner and the decrease in passion and communication may lead to you to believe that there is no longer love and passion can never be retrieved. And with that, many seek for a compensation outside of the marriage.
What can you expect from working together? We will create ways to implement small changes gradually into your lifestyle bringing in the passion, love and excitement.
+ Bring back the passion and intimacy:
In most cases, the emotions you used to feel are not lost. They have merely been merged into something else when routine took over. That means that they can be brought back by changing the way you communicate and behave around each other in your daily life.
+ Restore healthy communication:
You know what you want, need, feel, just unsure how to say it in a way that doesn’t hurt, upset or disappoint your partner. I will help you restore open communication that brings you closer instead of widening gap between you.
I respect and protect the privacy of my clients to the highest level. The information you share with me will not be shared with anyone else.
Your partner most likely feels the same way you do. But remember, you are here because you care, you value your relationship.
I can imagine you are thinking: How will I bring up the topic of working with a relationship coach. That is a statement saying: We need help.
What it also says is: I remember the better times we had and I miss being close to you. Once we have spoken, I will help you introduce the idea of working together to your partner. Our conversations will be open and relaxing and you will feel a quick change both in your approach and in your partners. That will give you the confidence and encouragement to explore more of my simple techniques to improve the communication and passion between you two.
Ready to bring into your relationship new energy?
Then contact me for a talk about how I can help you and your partner find each other again: