Relationship coaching for couples who wish to strengthen the connection, build trust, and bring back intimacy and passion into their relationship.
Are you drifting apart? — It does not have to be the end
You are in a long term relationship and the excitement of discovering one another has faded. Do you feel like you can anticipate each others moves, that there are no more surprises? Has routine taken over your relationship?
Have things become too comfortable? Have you gotten a bit lazy and stopped making an effort?
When have you stopped complimenting each other? or go on fun excursions? And instead of looking forward to something fun on the weekend, you spend them in the supermarket and family gatherings.
When is the last time you sat and talked about topics other than kids, household and finances?
What happened to all the fun talks you used to have?
The crazy sex?
The quality time you spent together just the two of you?
You miss it so much! It feels like a lifetime ago and you ask yourself if you can ever bring it back.
You can! It is a matter of re-integrating those fun and important in a light and gradual way. You already have it, just need a fresh boost.
You can still excite each other, you can still explore one another and find ways to surprise your partner. Bring back the passion into your relationship!
What to Expect
In a long term relationship, open and clear communication is key to get closer. My clients often tell me: My partner and I speak all the time – we communicate well
But when was the last time you told her how beautiful she is, or you told him how much you miss the small trips you use to take every weekend.
With time, the communication turns into what is expected, what needs to be done and not what we really want, feel, miss, wish for.
Sometimes, couples drift apart due to a traumatic experience, lack of mutual interests, quality time together. Your lifestyle has changed. There are parts which feel safe, good and comfortable, and others that are boring and passionless.
Routine, the lack of shown appreciation from your partner and the decrease in passion and communication may lead to you to believe that love and passion can never be retrieved. And with that, many seek for a compensation outside of the marriage.
I have met my partner in 1998 and have been in a loving and supportive relationship since then. Like every other relationship, we have had our ups and downs. I know first hand the work involved in keeping a relationship strong. A relationship that serves both our needs and helps us grow individually and as a couple.
What can you expect from working together? We will create ways to implement small changes gradually into your lifestyle bringing in the passion, love and excitement.
+ Bring back the passion and intimacy:
In most cases, the emotions you used to feel are not lost. They have merely been merged into something else when routine took over. That means that they can be brought back by changing the way you communicate and behave around each other in your daily life.
+ Restore healthy communication:
You know what you want, need, feel, just unsure how to say it in a way that doesn’t hurt, upset or disappoint your partner. I will help you restore open communication that brings you closer instead of widening gap between you.
I respect and protect the privacy of my clients to the highest level. The information you share with me will not be shared with anyone else.
Your partner most likely feels the same way you do. But remember, you are here because you care, you value your relationship.
I can imagine you are thinking: How will I bring up the topic of working with a relationship coach. That is a statement saying: We need help.
What it also says is: I remember the better times we had and I miss being close to you. Once we have spoken, I will help you introduce the idea of working together to your partner. Our conversations will be open and relaxing and you will feel a quick change both in your approach and in your partners. That will give you the confidence and encouragement to explore more of my simple techniques to improve the communication and passion between you two.
Ready to bring into your relationship new energy?
Then contact me for a talk about how I can help you and your partner find each other again: